Do You Want a BDSM Session Under The Covers?
Then you have reached the indicated article. The US edition of HuffPost has contacted several professional dominatrixes to find out their most useful and affordable advice for couples who want to add more fantasy to their BDSM session life. Warning: no need to go for the whip.
Make a sexual wish list
"When I start working with couples, my first advice is to set a date in which they only dedicate themselves to making a list of sexual desires. For simplicity, I recommend classifying them in three columns: green zone, yellow zone and zone In the green would go everything that you are dying to try, in the yellow, the things that are at the limit and that you would have to talk about, and the red ( red is a great safety word , by the way) is equivalent to BDSM Session.
Once the couple sees what options they have, they can begin a serious dialogue about consent and experimentation. But don't be surprised if one day the red zone turns green! "- Hudsy Hawn , professional dominatrix , BDSM educator (Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism) and couples counselor.
Eliminate orgasms from the equation
"Try to spend an intimate time together without ending in orgasm. Flirt, get in tune, say kindergartens, stimulate each other's genitals if you want or avoid it completely. Play with sexual excitement, get hot together, but no orgasms. Then, Talk about what you liked and what you didn't like. You may learn something new about yourself.
To a large extent, our sex life is determined by the urge to reach orgasm. Much of BDSM is based on what happens when you stop making orgasms the sole or primary goal of sex. It involves experimenting and testing the mental limits of arousal
BDSM session knots for beginners!
Enjoy a submission and control game and hold on to orgasms with these bondage knots.
If you have already decided to start in the BDSM world, specifically in Bondage, then this note is for you, as we have three knots for beginners that will make your experience more pleasant.
To perform them, you can use a tie, a ribbon or, preferably, special ropes to practice shibari, which you can get at your favorite sex shop, or even buy them online, remember that the most important thing before you start in the art of bondage is not putting any of its participants at risk.
Regardless of whether it excites you to lose control and succumb to desire or be the dominant that controls everything, keep in mind that before you tie or let them tie you must know how to do it , so let's get started!
Call your partner, fulfill your fantasies and complement your experience with the Bondage Attractions available in the best Love Hotels in the city.
Quick and easy, the butterfly knot can be performed on both the wrists and ankles and is characterized by not being entirely restrictive , since it does not generate much pressure and therefore is ideal for those who do not like to feel extremely tight.
It consists of tying the arms behind the person's back , leaving the upper part immobilized, or increasing the intensity and also tying both ankles.
As its name says, this knot is characterized by replacing traditional handcuffs and can be used both to tie the wrists and to tie the ankles , in the same way there is the option of tying the free limbs to other places or BDSM session furniture.
For example, you can practice this knot and enjoy a couple of positions in the Corner of Sacrifice immobilizing your partner's body with a tie that makes him scream with pleasure.
Although this knot may seem difficult, in reality it is not, on the contrary, it is one of the easiest and fastest knots to make, which positions it as one of the knots preferred by bondage lovers.
Among the characteristics that highlight the loop knot is that it must always be tied to another place and that it is very undoable. Use it to tie a wrist and an ankle, both wrists, or just both ankles, try practicing an X in bed or, better yet, hang on to the Fetish Corner and enjoy unforgettable orgasms.
What are you waiting for to start enjoying domination and submission games? Join the adventure and little by little go level up.
Finally, before running to practice them, take into account the following recommendations: be careful with knots because if you make them too tight they can leave marks and bruises, or in the worst case, the ropes can cut off the circulation causing it to faint.
Avoid tying the neck or joints , use flexible and soft materials in contact with the skin and always have a pair of scissors on hand to cut any tie if necessary.
Dare to live a full BDSM session sexuality and surrender to the eroticism of fulfilling your fantasies and enjoying a foreplay full of satisfactions.
Make a sexual wish list
"When I start working with couples, my first advice is to set a date in which they only dedicate themselves to making a list of sexual desires. For simplicity, I recommend classifying them in three columns: green zone, yellow zone and zone In the green would go everything that you are dying to try, in the yellow, the things that are at the limit and that you would have to talk about, and the red ( red is a great safety word , by the way) is equivalent to BDSM Session.
Once the couple sees what options they have, they can begin a serious dialogue about consent and experimentation. But don't be surprised if one day the red zone turns green! "- Hudsy Hawn , professional dominatrix , BDSM educator (Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism) and couples counselor.
Eliminate orgasms from the equation
"Try to spend an intimate time together without ending in orgasm. Flirt, get in tune, say kindergartens, stimulate each other's genitals if you want or avoid it completely. Play with sexual excitement, get hot together, but no orgasms. Then, Talk about what you liked and what you didn't like. You may learn something new about yourself.
To a large extent, our sex life is determined by the urge to reach orgasm. Much of BDSM is based on what happens when you stop making orgasms the sole or primary goal of sex. It involves experimenting and testing the mental limits of arousal
BDSM session knots for beginners!
Enjoy a submission and control game and hold on to orgasms with these bondage knots.
If you have already decided to start in the BDSM world, specifically in Bondage, then this note is for you, as we have three knots for beginners that will make your experience more pleasant.
To perform them, you can use a tie, a ribbon or, preferably, special ropes to practice shibari, which you can get at your favorite sex shop, or even buy them online, remember that the most important thing before you start in the art of bondage is not putting any of its participants at risk.
Regardless of whether it excites you to lose control and succumb to desire or be the dominant that controls everything, keep in mind that before you tie or let them tie you must know how to do it , so let's get started!
Call your partner, fulfill your fantasies and complement your experience with the Bondage Attractions available in the best Love Hotels in the city.
Quick and easy, the butterfly knot can be performed on both the wrists and ankles and is characterized by not being entirely restrictive , since it does not generate much pressure and therefore is ideal for those who do not like to feel extremely tight.
It consists of tying the arms behind the person's back , leaving the upper part immobilized, or increasing the intensity and also tying both ankles.
As its name says, this knot is characterized by replacing traditional handcuffs and can be used both to tie the wrists and to tie the ankles , in the same way there is the option of tying the free limbs to other places or BDSM session furniture.
For example, you can practice this knot and enjoy a couple of positions in the Corner of Sacrifice immobilizing your partner's body with a tie that makes him scream with pleasure.
Although this knot may seem difficult, in reality it is not, on the contrary, it is one of the easiest and fastest knots to make, which positions it as one of the knots preferred by bondage lovers.
Among the characteristics that highlight the loop knot is that it must always be tied to another place and that it is very undoable. Use it to tie a wrist and an ankle, both wrists, or just both ankles, try practicing an X in bed or, better yet, hang on to the Fetish Corner and enjoy unforgettable orgasms.
What are you waiting for to start enjoying domination and submission games? Join the adventure and little by little go level up.
Finally, before running to practice them, take into account the following recommendations: be careful with knots because if you make them too tight they can leave marks and bruises, or in the worst case, the ropes can cut off the circulation causing it to faint.
Avoid tying the neck or joints , use flexible and soft materials in contact with the skin and always have a pair of scissors on hand to cut any tie if necessary.
Dare to live a full BDSM session sexuality and surrender to the eroticism of fulfilling your fantasies and enjoying a foreplay full of satisfactions.